Happiness, A Way To Go
Happiness is something we all look for. The feeling of fullness so hard to describe. The feeling of peace where everything is perfect.
But the routine, the demands, the work, the lack of vacations… immerse us in a stress that is difficult to overcome. Furthermore, all this added to the problems that arise can make our mood sour, angry, bitter. What can we do then?
Changing your life so that happiness returns can be impossible at times, for whatever reason. But we will help you find it in small actions you can take. You have a path that will lead you to happiness, but maybe you’ve lost it, ignored it, or don’t know how to travel it or where to find it. We will help you with this. Happiness is waiting for you.
heal the memories and forgive
We all have sad memories in our past. Moments that were bad, but from which we took lessons. Who doesn’t have sad moments in their life? Get them, don’t ignore them and start healing them. The key is to forgive, not just others, but yourself as well.
Maybe they were frustrations, misunderstandings, situations that happened without anyone being able to avoid them… Bad times, sad times we all go through. Forgive and forgive yourself for all this. If something was your fault, it’s past. Now it’s time to change things, to change everything, not to make the same mistakes again.
You well know that learning from your mistakes will allow you to be a better person and be, in this way, closer to the happiness you so much desire. Don’t hold a grudge, don’t be bitter about things that have already happened. What matters is the present and it is up to you to change. Don’t blame yourself, don’t think about what has been. Today is what matters.
enjoy everything you have
We often want much more than what we have now. This is not a negative, as it is good to have a positive vision of the future, wanting to continue growing and achieving great things. But what do you have now? This idealized vision of your future can cloud your present. Maybe you want to conquer your dream house or be rich. Maybe you want to find your ideal partner.
But what you’re not realizing is that by focusing so much on what you want, you’re putting aside what you already have. It’s okay to think about achieving all these things, but you need to be prepared and be aware that maybe it won’t happen. And actually, there’s no problem with that!
Be humble, look around you. Enjoy your friends, what you have. Enjoy everything you can right now. Because happiness sometimes doesn’t come with what we want to achieve. We think that by having more things or more money we will be happier, and in the meantime we don’t live. You are wrong. Happiness will be with you whenever you wish.
Value yourself and make your dreams come true
As in the previous point, we often think that happiness is not in us but in something we should achieve. For starters, you need to value yourself. Do you really think you can enjoy something if you don’t enjoy yourself? Think, it’s the same thing as when they say you can’t love if you don’t love yourself first. How to do something you don’t understand?
Learn to respect yourself, to believe in yourself and your happiness. Learn to value yourself and also to value what you want. For example, what happens to that trip you wanted to take? And what language did you want to learn? What about the friend you said you were going to visit?
To be happy, you need to learn to start making your dreams come true now. No leaving them for tomorrow, which in the end will turn into a month and then a year. If you want to do something, do it now! Themes only one life; Will you wait to reach that happiness?
Don’t waste your time, spend your life on what you really want. Now is the time to enjoy, always with responsibility, of course! But I’m sure you won’t regret that crazy moment when you decided to bet on your dreams without blinking for a second.
Images courtesy of Mariana Kalacheva and Pascal Campion.
